To begin with, it’s impossible to tell if a spouse is cheating simply because there’s a noticeable change in his or her behavior (see signs of a cheating spouse). And many cheating spouses will deny having an affair (or the details of the affair) even when they are confronted with evidence of their guilt (see caught my boyfriend cheating—I think).Cheating spouses go to great lengths to hide an affair, because the costs of getting caught are so great.Posh famously helped Cheryl Cole through her heartache after husband Ashley slept with a hairdresser in 2008.A source said: “She’s [Posh] a fantastic role model to the rest of the footballers’ wives.(CNN) - "A lot of people have this assumption we just shop and go to the spa," laughs Erin Walker, wife of two-time US Ryder Cup star Jimmy Walker. But instead of settling down to a life of hotel-cosseted luxury, the journalism, advertising and marketing major took on the role of CEO in Team Walker.Erin is a vivacious and often outspoken voice on social media, an acerbic sometime writer in the golf press and the author of a blog called Tour Wife Travels, for several years a travelogue of life on the pro golf circuit. Among her "many hats" are financial controller, contract reviewer, travel planner, event organizer, sometime swing guru, chief motivator, psychologist, wife and mom."I'm the one who runs his ship.
Ask what they talk about and if you still feel uneasy ask her to see her texts with him just so you feel at ease. About chatting during early hours, she says he sometimes was travelling and was messaging. Please advise, your comments would really be appreciated and surely will be helpful. You need to stop this now, try Lee Baucom's save you marriage stuff.
Infidelity is hard to detect because most people are biased.
Most people do not think that spouse would ever cheat.
My wife loves me a lot and does all as a wife and a mother. When I confronted her with the call records, she said he is just a friend and they just chat casual things about their daily affairs. I dont understand what kind of discussion friends could have every day sending each other an average of 10-15 messages until late in the night. If you trust your wife and she tells you there is nothing going on then I wouldn't worry. Be cool, act cool; be in control of the only thing you can control? She later said at that point she was so smitten she was ready to give up her job.
Also, my wife never informed me until i found out myself. If the both have children wouldn't it make sense to talk about the day when all the kids are in bed and it the end of the day winding down for the day? It going to the extent that she had over 30 hours of calls to his country in the middle of the day, using her desk phone! Thing is I never checked her work cell because who knew this high ranking medical professional wife of mine would use work assets.
That means they are talking all day, that would be a little strange. However, what would friends have to talk every day and should it be done during acceptable hours. Keeping in mind both are married, shouldnt they be considerate? In my opinion this is cheating emotionally and is just as damaging to our marriage as physical cheating because the first thing that is lost is trust and that is the hardest to regain. But then who knew after we had a stupid argument she contacted him using her company issued cell phone!