Ask a few close friends, “would you theoretically date me based on this profile?
Without them, you will end up posting a photo with kale in your teeth, or where there is clearly a dog using the restroom in the background. Attend events specifically targeted towards lesbians like you.
I started on the site as a gender non-conforming gay male and then moved into being a pansexual genderqueer person.
Get used to a mix of pop hits, Shakira, and Bikini Kill.
That didn’t stop the intense expression of confusion that spread across his face.“So you’re a man? “Do you know how lucky you are that I’m not, like, crazy?
Because I know plenty of guys who would really do some shit to you.”“No, I’m a woman, a transgender woman,” I answered, trying to make him understand. His entire view of me had changed and there was no going back.
Whatever you think might happen in the next few paragraphs, or in the next few months, expect less.
Spend quite a bit of time agonizing over the photos and your description and hobbies.
I'd spent all winter debating whether this was the right step for me, but once I finally started hormone replacement therapy, I immediately felt it was the best decision I'd made my entire life.