I decided to write this article on dating Asian women to clear up some misunderstandings and ideas people have, as well as to give some advice for those who are thinking about it or who are dating an Asian woman.A lot of regular readers on the site know that I have lived in Asia since 2007.Some guys show great interest in Chinese girls (not foreign-grown ones whose mind is just like a westerner’s).But meanwhile you may feel a sense of lacking confidence due to your fear of dealing with the cultural differences.Their outlook on life is often different from westerners'. A Chinese girl also wants to be loved by an excellent guy, including one from a foreign nation. During first dates, cultural differences, which will not come out immediately, are usually not the top concerns. Try to impress her with your personality instead of showing yourself off. When you date a Chinese girl, you actually date her family to some extent.
Let’s address the elephant in the room right at the start – a lot of people automatically assume when they see a Western man dating Asian women she is either A) After a green card or visa, or B) Is poor and looking for security/wealth. A lot of the Asian women who come to the West with the boyfriends/husbands do in fact fit this category, but by no means all of them have an agenda.As a result, I get asked a lot of questions about what it’s like to date an Asian woman.I’ll do my best to explain all I’ve learned about it in this article.Many of the younger Asian women you see shacked up with older men living in your home city are indeed poor, seeking security and often have an ulterior motive.However, when you come to Asia itself you will begin to see a very different story.This is especially important if you have teenage kids, because Chinese dating and marriage customs can be very different from those in the U. American teenagers are used to a dating culture where neither partner usually considers marriage until both partners are much older.