Dad had sent the time and location for the meet-up, expecting a quickie.When he realized it was his two sons in the car, and not the guy who had responded to his personal ad, he hit the gas and his tires screeched as he took off in the opposite direction.It was a long process but I felt we were making ground.She lived with me for a bit before meeting her fiancee and moving in with him.I never noticed how dark his windows were tinted, but now it made sense. Was that something you did when you were meeting a teenager for sex in the alley behind a sporting goods store?They drove closer, unsure of what would happen next.
I was there for her through all of this, supportive and helping her through graduation, trying to guide her toward college, accepting her choices to have the baby and get married.It’s important that you don’t take his being withdrawn personally. When a woman is upset about something, most women talk to their friends and lean on their support group. Guys, on the other hand, typically view themselves as weak and incapable if they voice their feelings or lean on other people for help or support.A guy might do it, but he’ll typically feel like a loser or weakling for asking for support or even talking about his feelings.Guys don’t like to be around people when they don’t think they’re at the top of their game. So just remember that his withdrawing is a result of him not wanting to appear weak or out of control and just allow him space for that.Next, make sure that you give him space Well, remember what I was saying before about guys not wanting to appear out of control or needing of help/support?Many guys just don’t know how to deal with a child that isn’t theirs and it becomes immediately evident to the child, even when the mom is disillusioned into thinking that the guy is perfect.