To find the complete list of Love U Podcast episodes please visit: A well-respected world leader in sexology, Dr.Patti Britton is an academic, author, popular speaker, trainer and workshop leader. Keep your partner guessing.” In this worldview, youth, beauty and confidence are the magic talismans that lead to success.Yet in our 20s, 30s and even our early 40s, most of us weren’t ready to listen. But as we enter midlife, the idea of building sustainable and sustaining love becomes more compelling than ever. Try Cooking Together First) 4 Steps to Finding Lasting Love 1.Take control of your love life and jump out of the bad boy romantic rut. However, you have to ask yourself this: “Just because I don’t want a serious relationship, do I really want to subject myself to a guy who won’t meet my needs even though it might be exciting in the beginning? Accepting what we call “crumbs” — even from a man with whom you have a casual relationship — is damaging to your self-worth. But we’ve found that moving too quickly because of crazy chemistry can lead to a man losing interest too soon. Regardless of how sexy it is that he took you on a midnight motorcycle ride, or that you felt so good about how he shared those intimate details about his childhood even though he seems so rough on the outside, do you really think that proves it’s meant to last?Make taking care of yourself and your needs a priority; if he proves to YOU that he’s worth it, then perhaps he’s not hunting at all. Recognize what you are truly looking for Sometimes you might be looking for a “practice relationship” or something less serious because you’re not ready to make a commitment. Make sure your dignity remains intact at all times. Check in with yourself on the “insane chemistry” you have with the current bad boy you’re dating. Insane chemistry does not a lasting relationship make, so it’s important to take in factors that do — like his actions matching his words and his lack of disappearing on you intermittently. We aren’t saying you shouldn’t date the cute guy you met at Starbucks with the nose ring.
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