We kept it on imvu mostly but we did eventually exchange skype info.
So what does this have to do with a dating site you ask?
My romantic efforts never seemed to take, whether they were disappointing dates or go-nowhere three-month blips masquerading as relationships. I began constantly strategizing, trying to untangle the mixed signals he was sending.
I wanted this intense stranger who found to be different — to be, against all odds, The One. While he wrote that I was "incredibly beautiful" and opined about our being together one day, he also mentioned ogling women on the street and repeatedly dropped just enough details about a very present ex he was "still affectionate" with to make my body clench with resentment each time he'd say her name.
I space them apart by 30 minutes and aim for each interaction to be 15 minutes long.
If we get into something profoundly interesting, it stretches to 30 minutes.
Unfortunately, the anonymity of the internet makes it a perfect place for con artists to hide their real intentions while trying to entrap their victims under the guise of romantic interest.