After all, how can they give you legitimate compliments when they don’t know anything about you, and they don’t try to get to know you, either? If you’re constantly settling for the easiest solution, you’ll quickly lose sight of the type of guy you really deserve, and who you should be looking for in the long run.
A couple of days back, I asked the question, ‘If you’re healing, why are you dating?
In fact, I know people who feel just as alone in a room full of people, nevermind one on one with a man.
I could sit here and talk till I am blue in the face and give you umpteen reasons why issues will continue to arise and you will continue to be unhappy, but you and only you make your choices about where you want to go and what you want to do.
The advice that you give or get could make all the difference in the world.
Loneliness can lead you to make some pretty terrible decisions if you’re not careful.
Imagine this: you’re in a house by the beach, the rent is paid, and you’re lounging on a feather-stuffed futon in a silk robe.
You delicately shovel caviar into your mouth from well manicured fingertips, and sip a glass of champagne.
’ in response to the repeated problems that I see arising when we’re not prepared to spend some dedicated to focusing on ourselves and dealing with the issues that are impacting on our self-esteem and the possibility of happiness, whether that is on our own…or with someone else.