Now, I’m not saying these are conscious reasons why dating a man quite a bit older—there have been several moments when I’ve thought that going out with someone closer to my age would be much simpler.
I even tried it when my boyfriend and I took a short break, and I found it was painstakingly difficult and more complicated than my experience dating an older guy. The texting games (How long should I wait to text him back? It’s exhausting), the fear of commitment that plagues most twentysomethings, and the simple fact that most guys my age aren’t as emotionally mature as I am.
One of the biggest myths about older women is that we are no longer interested in looking stylish.
There is a big misconception in our culture that women over 60 are invisible, frumpy, and uninterested in sensuality and beauty – that we’re all matronly and sexless and no longer part of the world of fashion, art and creative life force.
Then again, the demographics of my clients are probably a bit skewed towards upper-middle class white people.
Money quote: The researchers found that most women speed daters said yes (meaning they’d like to see a man again after the four-minute speed date) less often to men of another race than they did to men of their own race.
Evolutionary psychologists say that relationships like this often occur because while fertility lasts only from puberty to menopause in women, it starts at puberty and can extend long into midlife for lots of men.
That means there’s a strategic advantage for women to snag an older gent—he’s had more time to accumulate resources and stability than his younger counterparts, which could make him a more viable partner and father.
The Latin women will have expressed a serious and sincere desire in meeting you.
If you live in a larger city, you might not keep running into the same people, but you’re probably running into the same type of girl: young, drunk, and kind of dumb.
If you are beginning to feel stuck and sick of the kind you are continuing to date, then it might be time to expand your dating pool. Well, you don’t have to move or go on a sexcapade to a neighboring city.
Just imagine having such a great selection of attentive, young, exotic Latin women vying for your personal attention!
You will meet your personal selection of Colombian women in a series of small groups and/or individually throughout your stay.
You only need to expand your idea of who is datable. If anything making this change will be a good experiment for your dating and sex life.