I was reluctant and skeptical at first but as I get to know her more, the age isn’t even anything I think about. I understand how much of an asshole that makes me sound like, but after meeting this woman, I am so torn.More specifically, my question is should I give up on this woman because she has a kid?Once your relationship becomes somewhat serious, try to get to know her son gradually, without attempting to rush or force the relationship or stepping in as a parental figure.Plan an outing that is fun and that requires minimal interaction.
We decided to wait six months before my first meeting with his girls: a trip to the arcade at Castle Park in Sherman Oaks.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I'm 21, she's 26, she's really pretty, has a good personality, job etc etc but she has a kid from a previous relationship.The kids 4 and he still see's his dad, she has made it clear it's cool if I decide the whole kid thing scares me off a bit and has made it clear she definitely isn't looking for anyone to look after him/pay for things.You might end up with a lovely little family, who knows? If you do not mind being a step daddy to this kid and you really like his mom, them give it a try you have nothing to lose and everything to gain However remember when dating someone with kids, if it doesn't work out you lose the kids and they lose you too and kids tend to fall hard so if there's any doubt in your mind you might want to think long and hard before rushing in Well young man , you are young and its a lot for you to take in at a early age, I don't know if you dated a lot before but she is older with a kid, you are at different stages in life, you are just beginning adult hood and she has started and has a child.Now she did say to you she isn't looking for someone to look after her son or pay for him and right now you are just starting to see her.I would definitely not let a woman that you really really like slip through your hands because she has a child. You will end up payig for someone else's child & raising someone else's child ? You will always have hostility from the father, possibly serious.4.