But I have to wonder why then you are so afraid to ask him to define your relationship.It seems to me like there must be something making you doubt his feelings for you or his intentions toward your relationship if you are afraid having the Talk would ruin things.
” Scripture does warn us to “guard our hearts.” As Christians we must be careful not to give our heart away too easily.
But he says he misses me while hugging me, and he said he loves the way I touch him. Please put some sense into my mind because I'm so confused!
From what you've said, things with this guy sound like they are great.
Today’s dating norms leave ample room for asymmetric commitment in serious dating relationships.
Relationship researchers argue that the stages and steps through which relationships form and progress are blurrier than in years past.
Pushing for commitment too early could be a bad move, but I think after nine months, you should both be ready to at least discuss it.