I don’t know about you guys, but I’ve met a lot of phonies, and even been blind enough to date them. After finding the right man to date, the battle becomes keeping God in the center of the relationship AND your life, rather than the man you’re dating.
He knows every guy’s heart better than we ever will, and the best part of this is they can’t fool God like they may be able to fool us (1 Samuel 16: 7). If we trust Him, we can avoid a lot of unnecessary heartbreak.
Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.We all need the grace and freedom that only Christ Himself can offer. And we can trust He will give guidance, and help us see some red flags to be aware of along the way.But our marriages are healthier when we recognize red flags in our dating relationships, instead of choosing not to see problems at all. 10 Women Christian Men Should Never Marry SEE ALSO: 10 Men Christian Women Should Never Marry 1.Being open to meeting a potential mate in church makes perfect sense.Using church as a shield because you don't want to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, can and will likely work against you. Often in the quest towards marriage and finding “the one,” something happens.