You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be. It’s too difficult to think when passion overtakes you. You can resist temptation if you put on the whole armor of God (Eph. Yes, it seems so right and loyal and kind to only date one person at once, but let’s remember something: This person is a stranger.
In a cute new video from Buzz Feed Yellow, a few adorable little kids give some truly original dating advice to adults.And I’d like to pass these along to you: things I wish I knew when I started. When I signed up for online dating, I couldn’t believe how addicting it was. Maybe they will save you a few tears as you navigate your own journey. I forgot to sleep, eat and basically just took a break from it to do my job. And for those of us who don’t get asked out often, it feels amazing to have so many guys messaging you and sending you questions. There’s a weird thing about online dating in which your mind wants to project a “perfect person” image onto your date. Remember, we need to be filling our mind with truth and thinking of things that are true. This is especially the case when it comes to the prevailing “wisdom” about relationships and dating.It’s on that subject — the subject of dating — that I’d like to offer this to my fellow whippersnappers out there: Don’t date just for the sake of dating. Physical touch/intimacy should correspond with commitment. This doesn’t mean anything goes if you are engaged. What is your motivation -- power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection?